Why My Life Sucks As For Today

February 5, 2010 | 2:51 pm Share

As we all agree, everyone in this world definitely have their ups and downs.

I guess I’m at the verge of my all time low record these days.

Please bear with me buddies, and I thank you all for supporting me through all the hard times. :)

As for why my life sucks, well for the curious, here are some pointers.


Image by Freddy Tan. He took this picture at Hanoi, saw the poor lil kitty tied to the lamp post. And he tagged me on this photo on Facebook. Gah.

Listen to me, for God’s sake!

Well, lets just say that it has something to do with miscommunication. If one party talks, you’ll expect the other party to listen, right? But when the other party talks, by the least of courtesy of course you have to listen too.

And someone in the family just talks and never listen. And that sucks.

Well you know, I guess this happens in many families. Not only in families, but in all companies, organizations or groups in the world. Someone has to be the (self-proclaimed or not) leader with a larger than life ego. But as long as the person is willing to put down the ego a little and listen, for once, he/she can potentially be the best leader among all. :)

So if you’re someone that talks too much and never listen, time to stop a while and listen for once. No matter how bad the thing sounds, no matter how hard it is to accept, if you actually listen, it will definitely be good for you, because whatever people say, they say with their hearts.

Even lies come from the heart. If you can tell that it’s a lie, it shows their heart, no?

So yeah… Please listen up, will ya?

Oh, anyway, the person finally listened up and the problem is solved… for now. At least for now. :/ Lets just hope that it lasts. (From my experience it rarely lasts long :x).

10 Years Sick And Treating It Today

Yep, after 10 years of having this medical condition I’m only starting to see the doctor today.

Juvenile idiopathic arthritis. I got it when I was young, having frequent joint pains everyday late at night or early in the morning or whenever it rains. Everyone called me the young-old-man, hehe. But oh well, I thought it was normal and not something big and thought it will go away when I grow up.

Apparently not. It’s still here and getting worse. When I saw the doctor yesterday she scolded me, “What the hell have you been doing for the past 10 years??”

Ignorance, perhaps?

The doctor said that if I have went to see her any later it might develop into something much worse than what it is now. While there are no cure for arthritis, there are still plenty of things that you can do to prevent it from getting worse.

So kids, if you have any pains or discomfort anywhere for an extended period of time, don’t think, go see the freaking doctor before it gets any worse. Seriously. No, any pain or discomfort is not normal, and yes even if you’re born that way doesn’t mean you have to stay that way for the rest of your life.

Trust the doctors, and trust me. :)

You want more emo stories?

Nah, I’m sure this blog is not meant for emoness. There are plenty of other emo stuffs that I would not like to disclose for now, but one thing for sure, I would love to thank my friends and pals who stood by whenever I needed em. They are really great friends that you can never find, only met and nurtured through time.

I trusted them. And I thank you all for trusting in me. :D

And thank you all for staying with this blog and continue to read even though I have been inactive for the past couple of weeks. I am still trying to settle down and chunk more time for blogging (and read-blogging), and while so, please, yet again, bear with me for my sanity’s sake.

In the meanwhile, if you have missed any previous posts, why not go on and have a look? Apparently, my obsession with male underwears gained the most attention from the search engines, generating 20-30 hits every day, huhu. I wonder why!

Have a great life, everyone!

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Comments (15)

kelvin

February 5th, 2010 at 8:51 am    

That happens to me too. I can never understand why my parents believe in their friends more then believing me. Even in the end i am t he correct one but they will just find some excuse to denied the fact.

Bear

February 5th, 2010 at 9:30 am    

Parents have HUGE ego…. enough said…

kenwooi

February 5th, 2010 at 12:22 pm    

hey take care of yourself ya! get well! =)

William

February 5th, 2010 at 4:06 pm    

Hope it's not too late!

count a

February 5th, 2010 at 6:58 pm    

take care…settle down first and don't force yourself too much in blogging if there's other things you need to do now…

CHVoon

February 5th, 2010 at 7:14 pm    

have a big hug :) (please dont think i am saiful ar..)

Last time, i face the same problems with you (family). But, wehn i grow older… and more indepent.
They start to listen to you because they believe your capable – proven to them.

sick… mmm it is still not that late…

Good luck!

Lock your goal and go for it.

P/S: Happy Chinese New year – Happy always ok.

fufu

February 6th, 2010 at 9:59 pm    

lucky my parents have always had faiths in my… and let me make every decision… =p erm well just do your part well… good luck

Himmat Singh

February 7th, 2010 at 6:32 am    

Hey Gary.
Just wanted to let you know I changed my blog's commenting interface to Intense Debate after first seeing it here.

And 20-30 hits for ur obsession with male underwears, huh??

orville

February 8th, 2010 at 1:02 am    

i believe you can overcome this situation. if you feel like your life sucks for today then tomorrow is a new day.. there is what we call "from mourning into dancing. have a great day.

franch

February 8th, 2010 at 8:30 am    

Poor Grey D=
I hope your 'ups' are coming up these days. CNY is just around the corner haha. Take care, cheers!

Dhar

February 9th, 2010 at 9:51 am    

Get well soon bro, everything will be alright. I'm sure your good heart is just being tested, and soon it will be all over. As for the joints, my dad has the same problem, and he used to be a runner before… right now he has lost weight and is eating healthy, plus good calcium intake… he has gotten a bit better, and we're helping him maintain that standard… have easy exercises, and a good diet :) May you receive the best of happiness and luck in the new year :)

ericleeh

February 10th, 2010 at 12:01 pm    

wow….10 years of unknown disease….that's why i hate to go to the doctor at times…suddenly come out some shocking result..might faint on the spot and vomit blood…LOL anyway i guess most parents are like that la….I've heard worse

Joanna

February 13th, 2010 at 8:17 am    

Hey there, do take care and hang in there alright? Hope things will smooth out for you. :)

Charles Ravndal

February 19th, 2010 at 11:56 pm    

Hugs from moi! I hope you'll better soon. TC!

ilovepink1078

February 22nd, 2010 at 6:12 pm    

Yes, its really true! What are we know is really a choice not by chance.
Smile always…

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